I got a message late on Monday that there would be an emergency hearing yesterday at 11:30 due to a request by Tigger's aunt and grandmother that he be placed with them immediately. When we got home, I started organizing his clothes. Then I decided that if that was going to be my last night with him, I wanted to just spend time with him. I cried as he crawled over to me and started reaching up to grab my legs.
The next day I got a call around 12:30 that the judge had ordered temporary custody with Tigger's aunt. Thank goodness I didn't have any patients scheduled between 12 and 2:30 so I was able to get his stuff together and meet the caseworker at the daycare to tell him goodbye. I'm not sure how this would have gone if I had been working all day.
The family had hired a lawyer, and my understanding is that this is the reason they were able to get Tigger so quickly. I don't blame the family, because I know that if my nephew was in foster care in another state because my sister wasn't taking care of him, I would fight tooth and nail to get him.
I am so sad to say goodbye to that sweet baby. But that is balanced out a little with knowing that he has gone with people who want him and love him.
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