I have read about many people getting "that comment" about being a foster parent.
Even before I have become licensed, I also have gotten "that comment" many times myself already.
"Isn't it going to be too hard to let them go? I could never do that."
Here's one foster mom's response to the question. I like it. Part of what she says is, "I am not afraid to grieve. I am afraid of what would happen to these children if no one took the risk to love them." But you should read the whole thing.
I hear 'that comment' even though I am not a foster parent - just interested! That is the FIRST response I get when I bring up the subject. Every time. :/
ReplyDeleteI always remind people that our own kids are not promised to us either! (I lost a toddler so they understand what I mean)
Exactly. I'm so sorry for your loss. Good luck on your foster care journey. Let me know if you decide to go through with it!
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